Some of the Questions We Are Asking:

1. How have you learned that men love?

2. Growing up, what didn’t you learn about being a man that you wish you had?

3. How do you see our culture initiate boys into manhood?  How is that for you?  How would you want it to be?

4. How have groups of men shown up for you and supported you in discovering who you are as a man?

5. Have you received the message (spoken or unspoken) that it wasn't safe for you to be exactly who you are, as you are?

6. What have you been taught about violence and masculinity? Sex and masculinity? Self-worth and masculinity?

7. What has it meant to be a man? What does it mean now? What do you want it to mean? What has it meant, for you, to be a man?